May I ask what you are doing in order to get nearly 2 first dates per month?
epi_glowworm on
That friend, now that’s a keeper
teh_lynx on
That’s a lot of effort for nothing bruh. 7th date…. What even is that !?
Juliette787 on
You guys are having dates?
R_Harry_P on
This is crazy to me. I’ve never been on a second date that didn’t turn into a relationship.
Ewggggg on
The no second and third date categories are unnecessary. Getting ghosted after a fifth date has to hurt.
Dr_Mantis_Teabaggin on
Maybe it’s time to try out the D.E.N.N.I.S. system.
Ok_Understanding3890 on
Looks like he’s brining out the Pokémon card collection on the 2nd date.
Just kidding man. Hopefully things turn forward for ya.
Lied- on
PSA to all the guys: I’ve used apps to great success, but I haven’t touched them in years. I’ve found that just asking a female friend if she knows anyone is the best. Girls love playing Cupid for their friends and if she is a good friend they will even try to find someone who they think will be good for you / thinks you’re cute for you. Takes away all the pressure and works much better lol.
hopelesscaribou on
I’m glad you got a friend out of it! Good luck with Ms.TBD.
gobbedy on
“friend” — i smell future wife
vintagebitch476 on
What app do you guys use to create these graphs? They’re so cool
MakeHerSquirtIe on
Back to back “dating statistics” posts on this sub lmao sure, yea. This whole Internet thing is a joke it’s all just AI garbage now
thispartyrules on
It’s hard for guys to make friends as adults, so congrats
reichjef on
7 dates, then turned down? She couldn’t figure it out by number 2 or so?
PompeiiSketches on
Seventh date? At that point its not getting turned down, its a breakup.
gaijin91 on
Ghosted after a fifth date? I’m sorry.
dannydevon on
so noone had an 8th date in 2025? wHAt a load of bullshit
thaddeus11091 on
maybe it the charts
stop making them and see how it improves
ChOcOcOwCaKe on
Inb4 OP marries the one under ‘friend’
Vaxion on
That’s a lot of free dinners. This man’s a provider.
RichieNRich on
O:O (so far) …. seems about right.
aloofman75 on
I haven’t been single since the ‘00s, so before the apps and social media. If I’d had that many dates in a year AND so few ghostings, I would have been much happier.
TRUEequalsFALSE on
You got a first date? How?!
A_Bit_Of_Nonsense on
Ghosted after 5 dates is brutal but it always says a lot more about them despite the fact it hurts so much for you.
ShyguyFlyguy on
Did ya at least smash by that 7th date?
the_Jolly_GreenGiant on
Hey, you got a friend out of it. I call that a win.
MVPoker on
How do you make these? And why. Genuinely curious what information you are trying to learn.
Pneuma001 on
My dating history for the last eight months would be a straight line – just one bad date.
Appropriate_Yak_2558 on
I’m sorry you got ghosted man. Happened to me recently too, these things suck.
Altricad on
You have better success than 99% of the people here
I went on dates with 12 different women ( and a short relationship but let’s ignore that for now)
only 3 of them went to date #3, 2 fully ghosted, the rest had no interest and 0 became friends because they weren’t good communicators/texters or responders
23 is a crazy number, you’re basically talking to a new girl every 2-3 weeks. Asking their favorite color, favorite food, what they do for work and trying to setup time every 2 weekends?
At that point dating is a full-time hobby, modern dating is not it
Rare-Lengthiness-297 on
So how many times did you come in the fluffer I’m confused
Actual_Geologist_151 on
This is pretty validating as a man in a similar demographic. I think I probably got less second dates but I did have a few that were 10 plus dates which I guess I feel better about now.
Ghosting, people who randomly decide after they’ve gone on a few dates that they’re not actually looking to date etc. I found most people I dated this year to be very unserious about love and the work it takes when you’re in your late 20s and beyond.
Dubmove on
A first date every two weeks – yeah I wonder why you didn’t end up in a committed relationship as well (if that’s your goal)
Evening_sadness on
I don’t really think these graphs are beautiful, they are honestly convoluted. Could just post a plate of spaghetti and label various noodles.
Quietabandon on
Would getting ghosted not be a subset of turned down?
xxhotandspicyxx on
Turning someone down after 7 dates should be considered a crime man.
EnvironmentalBed1614 on
Getting ghosted after 5 dates just tells you, that the other person is an asshole
Frosty-Habit-9026 on
What app are ppl using to make these graphs?
ImpossibleDraft7208 on
Soon people will need an HR department for dating… This is just ridiculous!
Constant-Bridge3690 on
Kind of explains my problem. If I get to a second date, I am interested. The woman is still evaluating even after the seventh date.
Humpdat on
Do you like any of these people? Is it like a “I’ll grow to like them” thing?
I’ve literally only ever dated people who I know I will be in a relationship with/ have something bubbling already.
![[OC] Dating Statistics of a 29-year-old Male in 2025](https://www.byteseu.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/j866bznvbaag1-1536x1152.png "[OC] Dating Statistics of a 29-year-old Male in 2025")
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There’s still a TBD so there’s hope
I can give you my stats as a 29M in 2025
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May I ask what you are doing in order to get nearly 2 first dates per month?
That friend, now that’s a keeper
That’s a lot of effort for nothing bruh. 7th date…. What even is that !?
You guys are having dates?
This is crazy to me. I’ve never been on a second date that didn’t turn into a relationship.
The no second and third date categories are unnecessary. Getting ghosted after a fifth date has to hurt.
Maybe it’s time to try out the D.E.N.N.I.S. system.
Looks like he’s brining out the Pokémon card collection on the 2nd date.
Just kidding man. Hopefully things turn forward for ya.
PSA to all the guys: I’ve used apps to great success, but I haven’t touched them in years. I’ve found that just asking a female friend if she knows anyone is the best. Girls love playing Cupid for their friends and if she is a good friend they will even try to find someone who they think will be good for you / thinks you’re cute for you. Takes away all the pressure and works much better lol.
I’m glad you got a friend out of it! Good luck with Ms.TBD.
“friend” — i smell future wife
What app do you guys use to create these graphs? They’re so cool
Back to back “dating statistics” posts on this sub lmao sure, yea. This whole Internet thing is a joke it’s all just AI garbage now
It’s hard for guys to make friends as adults, so congrats
7 dates, then turned down? She couldn’t figure it out by number 2 or so?
Seventh date? At that point its not getting turned down, its a breakup.
Ghosted after a fifth date? I’m sorry.
so noone had an 8th date in 2025? wHAt a load of bullshit
maybe it the charts
stop making them and see how it improves
Inb4 OP marries the one under ‘friend’
That’s a lot of free dinners. This man’s a provider.
O:O (so far) …. seems about right.
I haven’t been single since the ‘00s, so before the apps and social media. If I’d had that many dates in a year AND so few ghostings, I would have been much happier.
You got a first date? How?!
Ghosted after 5 dates is brutal but it always says a lot more about them despite the fact it hurts so much for you.
Did ya at least smash by that 7th date?
Hey, you got a friend out of it. I call that a win.
How do you make these? And why. Genuinely curious what information you are trying to learn.
My dating history for the last eight months would be a straight line – just one bad date.
I’m sorry you got ghosted man. Happened to me recently too, these things suck.
You have better success than 99% of the people here
I went on dates with 12 different women ( and a short relationship but let’s ignore that for now)
only 3 of them went to date #3, 2 fully ghosted, the rest had no interest and 0 became friends because they weren’t good communicators/texters or responders
23 is a crazy number, you’re basically talking to a new girl every 2-3 weeks. Asking their favorite color, favorite food, what they do for work and trying to setup time every 2 weekends?
At that point dating is a full-time hobby, modern dating is not it
So how many times did you come in the fluffer I’m confused
This is pretty validating as a man in a similar demographic. I think I probably got less second dates but I did have a few that were 10 plus dates which I guess I feel better about now.
Ghosting, people who randomly decide after they’ve gone on a few dates that they’re not actually looking to date etc. I found most people I dated this year to be very unserious about love and the work it takes when you’re in your late 20s and beyond.
A first date every two weeks – yeah I wonder why you didn’t end up in a committed relationship as well (if that’s your goal)
I don’t really think these graphs are beautiful, they are honestly convoluted. Could just post a plate of spaghetti and label various noodles.
Would getting ghosted not be a subset of turned down?
Turning someone down after 7 dates should be considered a crime man.
Getting ghosted after 5 dates just tells you, that the other person is an asshole
What app are ppl using to make these graphs?
Soon people will need an HR department for dating… This is just ridiculous!
Kind of explains my problem. If I get to a second date, I am interested. The woman is still evaluating even after the seventh date.
Do you like any of these people? Is it like a “I’ll grow to like them” thing?
I’ve literally only ever dated people who I know I will be in a relationship with/ have something bubbling already.
This seems so weird to me