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    [OC] My bumble data as a 19 y/o lesblan
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    [OC] My bumble data as a 19 y/o lesblan


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    19 Y/O black nonbinary lesbian, feminine presenting, exclusively swiping on women and other nonbinary people

    This is exclusively bumble data from the summer/fall of 2020 so yes I went on other dates from tinder/people I broadly met irl. Yes I have been in relationships before. No I did not marry the first person I dated LMAO. I just thought it was interesting to show a dating app actually leading to a long term relationship/marriage.

    Also I didn't get married at 19 we waited a couple of years. I'm the uhaul lesbian stereotype but not that badly.

    The chats are likely that low because I had recently decided to only talk to people who messaged me first. I'd been seeing a trend of women (especially white bisexuals, no offense) expecting me to carry the conversation and do the work, kind of like what they'd expect from a man. I'm not a man and don't want to be treated like one. I wanted to be pursued as much as I pursued them. I had a lot of good prompts in my bio so the least you had to do was respond to one. Most didn't.

    Posted by Reaniro

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    1. Reaniro on

      Tool: Sankeymatic

      Data source: I asked bumble for just my Date data. They gave me info on swipes and match rates but not total conversations for whatever reason. I manually went through my saved conversations on the app to find total amount of chats and what conversations led to dates.

      **Edit:** It was honestly really surprising to me that I didn’t get any dates off bumble except my (now) spouse. I was on tinder at the same time so they kinda blurred together in my head.

    2. DoeCommaJohn on

      Damn, 93% of people you swiped on swiped back? Do you know if that is standard for lesbian dating apps, or are you above average?

    4. M_Mirror_2023 on

      Why did you match with 130+ people if you had no intent to talk to them?

      Congratulations on your marriage.

    8. lightofhonor on

      Congratulations! Though the dad joke in me would warn about getting married after one date 🤣

      My wife was 20 when we got married so early is fine if you get the right one 👍 helps with college loans too!

    10. Finlandia1865 on

      So are you 19 or not? You say yourre 19 but also that you got married after age 19(?)

    12. Particular_Big_333 on

      Man, that change from a high match frequency to radio science is really something.

    15. chilispiced-mango2 on

      Congratulations on finding your person on Bumble, and happy pride month! I was on there 4 years ago as a straight 20-something dude but gave up on there for Hinge the year after

    16. ColdEngineBadBrakes on

      So, you started off married and then became more and more single?

      I’d watch that movie.

    17. CptZaphodB on

      Damn, meanwhile I swipe right on 100 people and I’ll get two matches and no conversation

    18. Biterbutterbutt on

      Congrats! Met my wife the same way. Except as a straight male my matches was like 10% of my right swipes lol. You did well!