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    1. **Self-pleasure before bed is linked to falling asleep faster and sleeping better**

      Engaging in physical and mental self-pleasure before going to bed is associated with falling asleep faster, enjoying better sleep quality, and experiencing more positive emotions upon waking. People who regularly engage in the practice immediately before sleep are also slightly more likely to report having erotic dreams. These findings were published recently in the journal [*Sexuality & Culture*](https://doi.org/10.1007/s12119-026-10578-7).

      https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-026-10578-7

    2. bigfriendlycorvid on

      It’s interesting that reading romance novels (separate from erotica) and non-genital touching had a similar positive impact as orgasm. This isn’t just about physical satisfaction, but comfort and an apparent sense of intimacy.

    3. Mysterious_Rule938 on

      I would like to confirm this hypothesis, but I need a good control dataset first.

    4. It actually just makes me more alert and awake. I think it has the opposite effect on women. Because I can’t fall asleep right after.

    5. Hasn’t it been said that if you tense up your body and then relax that will also let you fall asleep faster? I know jorking it also throws in the happy chemicals.

    6. I wished this worked for me. Orgasms make me _more_ alert and _more_ awake. I can’t sleep for hours afterwards. 

    7. SuperBaconjam on

      Oh…. Is it more that 3-5 times before bed? I’ve been doing it more and more lately but the “positive emotions upon waking” part isn’t happening for me.

    8. SoggyOutfield on

      I get a huge burst of energy for some reason. I used to crash and this worked great. Then a few years ago it flipped.

      And my wife is the opposite. She used to get a big burst of energy after. Now she crashes. This is both solo or together. 

    9. MartyrOfTheJungle on

      I knew if I looked hard enough I’d find something I’ve done right 

    10. What if it makes you cry because you’ve been a bachelor since you were 19? Do you still get the benefits I wonder?

    11. IM_INSIDE_YOUR_HOUSE on

      Oh thank god I’m actually doing something good for myself for once.